In a large bowl, combine the green cabbage, red cabbage, carrots, bell pepper, green onions, and cilantro.
In a small bowl or jar, whisk together the soy sauce, rice vinegar, sesame oil, honey (or maple syrup), lime juice (if using), ginger, garlic, and olive or neutral oil until smooth.
Pour the dressing over the vegetables and toss well to coat everything evenly.
Sprinkle with toasted sesame seeds before serving.
Serve immediately for maximum crunch, or refrigerate for 30 minutes to let flavors meld.